Friday, 24 February 2017

WINE & DIVINE – (Part 01)

WINE  &  DIVINE – (Part I )
- This article is dedicated to the people who are in search of  Happiness loosing Health of : body-buddy-bread. 

( A Happy Dog Force to Smile FREAKY)

It is absolutely true today the life around is very freaky or force to do so, as very unusual and unexpected thing happening. Things include animal, person, place or any event natural or man made, comport differently. We are so much concern with the happenings and peace, which includes major participation of man but he himself  dismantle the intrinsic form to deform, leads to the situation, seems to be seeped from his hand.



In this very unpredictable scenario in every walks of life - home,office,society,school including religious places,where we intend to find a solution, that a man can get little space to forget his worries, tension, turmoil.A very hectic and competitive days are pushing a man to very painful friction.This puts man into unsecured situation of man and compel him to behave inhuman.
Then for little sigh there is so  the easy available options either of alcohol brand  or religious brand-- cults  to calm down themselves.Adopting either any one or both option depends upon their mind set up,financial permit and social background.And you may find lot of rush there at both the places, even at certain places people are in ques, sometimes quietly and sometimes very hastily and surprising thing is both are not certain for their result.The ultimate result is again fear and insecurity.

So intend may be justifiable but practical experience is both ways are not much hospitable.Now a days both ways are become so commercial that people who go for this, instead of getting out of their problems they are day by day put themselves into mire. They come to know latter when nothing has left with them, it happens in both places-Religion and Restaurants(Bar).
Why it is so then lot of people are running for, despite of criticize it ? Both you will see unhappy with elongated faces !!!   
In fact all have almost missing the fact. All are talking about the globalization, social justice and freedom, but who will take care of individual whose mind software either have become default or corrupt.  Due to acceptance of faulty life style and extrovert mind set.  And most dangerous thing is, absolutely they are unaware. At one hand they feel themselves level-headed or sound thinkers but on other hand what the options most of them are adopting to be pleasant is: Wine!
On other hand, those who are self declare spiritual agitators around, are adopting the same tumbledown, decrepitude and perverted religious dogmas. On the top of that, they too say we are only right and spreading such a techniques which they insist to follow which has been proved very difficult for the common man, saying this is the true path to be pleasant is: Divine 
Both group are in search of peace and to calm down there mind after the days long work and efforts the better and easier way to exercise  either divine or wine option to dull their mind and body.
If you see, the result is same, calming down the mind, yes or no. See; observe both parties are doing this for the same result. If you want, then, ask them, there will be endless confrontation on the option they have exercised or following. You will find no concrete and acceptable answer. Even their justification will take the great utopian shape and will justify the social and economical need. You will find both side same number of votes. In particular, discussion, whosoever may win the other party always remains in dilemma. Wine party or Divine party both will be little doubtful with their justification, because their main issue is relief ,which they are deprived off. It is the mere connivance, both are responsible to turn blind eye to so called LIFE STYLE and  so called SPIRITUALITY as well.   
While reading this blog you too, may fold your cuffs for one more war, but  let me clarify that we are here seeking solution with respect to both of the philosophies. Here we will not conclude with the denial of either parties rather we may give them better understanding towards the same result for what they are looking for.
Let us first discuss the latter first- Spirituality: It is very vast and deep understanding is required to cope with the justification of spirituality that dulling your mind may long term give better result. But it is not the place here where my separate blog is dedicated for this subject.
So my major emphasis is on the connivance towards adopting the so profound and valuable assets of thousands of years of perseverance is taken so lightly and some others have made the business out of it. We all by the way are disrespecting the tenacity of those they worked for the community without any monitory expectation. In addition, see what some of the people what they are calling themselves trusties of this great- great treasure, which is still preserved here with common man more better percent than these nasty spiritual corporates.
Most of these spiritual gurus are instead of guiding their disciples just with their life experiences and keeping them seeking for the God in lieu of that these gurus try to impose their philosophy what they call their in fact actually borrowed from the then ancient called Rishis which is told in those days in the context of the time people and the place as well  and the same without updating properly they are just putting on the neck of the innocents. They are under the million tones burden of preaching their gurus and his organization, which is easy to listen but impossible to work practically. And not only outside it is surprising what morals they teach the followers are rarely followed in their premises itself. Do what guru says it is not practically viable in society and not even among their fellow adherent. Then it obvious to be under the pressure though they are themselves in the protection of divine roof and thinking measurably why it is happening these suffering and not finding success and peace for which I came here for. So what is the result ? In the beginning, they feel it ok, good sometimes better. They are in search of certain solution to get at least little relief from certain painful family problems where their daily life is made miserable and helpless. But as days passes away, many things they feel pinching for which they even cannot utter a single word as there is a fear of committing  sin against guru means God, as it is the misconception absorbed in the nerves Indian society. Here they have to pay also for getting all the services means there are even very heavy taxation requires to pay. Here poor are rarely allowed, only rich can reach near t the gurus. Others have to see from distance apart from his air-conditioned preaching rostrum. This situation not only frustrates them but also they sometimes becomes atheist. They lose the confidence and trust with the life. Sometimes it becomes fatal. In addition, in some of the houses there is difference of opinion in-between husband-wife and with children. Because either of the parents become so obsessive with obstinacy. It leads to poison the family relationship at such extreme situation that put the man into vary dangerous situation.
No any religious gurus are easily available today to help you for yourself; they are just like the religious agents helping on toll commission. If you are getting any some relief or outcome then it is absolutely fruit of  your innocent belief and trust towards that almighty God. But for this you need not to hold anybodies flag on your shoulder and to take extra efforts to visit them day to day or weekly congregation.

On other hand we are exercising easier and stylish option to dull their mind is ALCOHOL- in different flavor, test, colour, quality and local or imported as well depends upon the passion and pocket. Now within one hundred years alcohol consumption has become one important part of the ritual of many festivals and ceremonies birthday to funeral. Few years before just probably 1% in villages were drunken people but today even youngsters boys and girls too, are in the stupor, kick.
Initially only landlords or the rich people were going for this indulgence but now it has become fashion, trend in all ages,every poor and cultured families including young generation becoming addict at very early age. It is becoming now the status symbol  
In fact all want to pamper themselves to get rid of the itching of the today’s cut throat race and also to protect the so called self declared identity. But in this process we forget how our health is affecting. It is affecting yourself Physically, Economically very badly. In addition, Psychological effect is so horrendous that many people cannot come out of their situation throughout their life. It becomes lifetime curse on their shoulder under which they slowly become part of the top soil.               
Global status report on alcohol and health published by WHO that there are millions people die due to alcohol consumption addition to wreck the family totally.
At least WHO has not yet published any fatal and cognizable survey report those who are affected by religious gurus or preachers so at least it is better option but do it knowingly don’t drag your family if they are not willing and other danger is as alcohol addict don’t become religious addict as you know these people also become danger elements for peaceful society.
I personally neither supporting nor I oppose both the parties those who want to go for the alternatives; rather I am here to suggest you the better option which you may try yourself as  your intent towards doing this is mainly to calm down yourself. So let us find some of the easy alternatives-
1)Spare your free time absolutely with your family- wife, mother, father and children.
2) If you want to drink then don’t go out just sit in your bed room and enjoy for a while. This habit controls and
 avoids addiction.
3)Instead of wasting so much amount for both to religious gurus or for wine ,purchase some good books whichever you like and spend your time to read good stuffs of your mind and intellect.
4)Keep all your religious teachings at personal level don’t try to impose either on your family members or society.
5)Don’t become addict of anything, just keep in mind.

( We shall meet in second part where we discuss odd and even effects of both dulling options-Wine and Divine with scientific analysis.)

Thank you.
-Leo SRS